The Gift of Life

This is the Rheinfall in Switzerland. It is an area along the Rhine River that has a huge rock in the middle. It makes a breathtaking waterfall. You can ride a very bumpy boat to the middle and climb to the top of the rock...

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Kathy King

The Gift of Life

In the picture above, this brooding beautiful waterfall that is created on the Rhine river is kind of like life. When you visit you can take a very bumpy boat ride to the middle and climb the rock to the top. At the top you can see the view, the Alps in the background. The river that runs smoothly and the mist that flows from the falls. Amazingly there is always a rainbow generated on sunny days from the force of the water. In my mind that represents the beautiful, the awful (through the sheer force of the water) and the mundane.

“Life is amazing. And then it’s awful. And then it’s amazing in between the amazing and the awful it’s ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That’s just living a heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it’s breathtakingly beautiful.” L.R. Knost

One day everything is coming up roses.

One day you can barely take a step.

One day you feel like crying. 

One day you emerge from the depths. 

One day you get so many things done.

Another day you can barely carry on.

Progress looks different, each and every day.

Some days you climb that mountain and take in the view each and every way.

Other days you cry, you grieve, you feel your worst. 

Remember dear readers, don’t stay there. 

Dig your self out of the mire, into a place of joy and mirth.

Breathe when it’s mundane. Pause, take that huge breath.

Celebrate when life is amazing. 

Log those times into your mind.

When the awful times come, you can search your mind for those times.

Search your mind for the moments when you were joyful and at your best.

Also remember those times you barely made it, remember your strength that you had through the test. 

Life truly is a glorious and messy dance. 

Find your steps, fill your mind, do your very best. 

Remember if you never experience the valley, when you do reach that glorious mountain top.

You will not have a place of appreciation on which to draw. 

All of life is messy, on that you can depend. 

But that messy is part of the beautiful, the brave, the scared.

The gamut of emotions dwells there for sure. 

But one thing we humans can do is endure. 

Confession. Life should be tea parties, your person telling you that you are beautiful. Calories should be null and void. Money should be endless. There should be no conflict whatsoever in the world or in personal life, and the house should always be clean. Also, for me… it would be a crisp fall day for about half the year. Everyone has their perfect, or their wish for perfect. For some it could be just a warm meal or a pleasant place to lay their head. Today I spoke with a woman who was married to her husband for 18 years. She said, "He promised me twenty, I had hoped he would have given me twenty. But his health would not allow him to do so. When I spoke at his memorial I said to his ashes, 'I want my twenty years, you only gave me eighteen you cheeky devil.'" She said this with a smile on her face. After her moment of mirth she then looked at me and said, "I do miss him so, I would love to have just a few minutes with him. But I am truly thankful for the eighteen I got." I could only stand in awe. Others choice would be to have good health. For some it would be to speak with their child. I am a member of a military mom group. This group is a place of encouragement for those who have loved ones that serve. Some of those women just want to have a simple phone call from their baby to know that they are okay. When I pause and think about what a “tea party” is to some people it is incredibly humbling. The old adage that we have heard concerning not judging someone harshly. We simply do not know what they are going through in life. That rings very true. Do I wish for a tea party all the time? Not really. But as the quote states. Life just isn’t that way. Recently things have been interesting, mundane, hard, and some days just confusing. The advice given above is so very true. Rather than getting bored of the mundane, take a moment to breathe. During the awful, hold on. Pray. Draw from your spiritual well of strength. You have made it before, you can make it again. Finally, pass that strength on to others. They may need to see your example to make it through. After all, “Life is simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” Confucius 

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